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In today’s times, we often see people being torn
between love and family. Families are splitting up
as one partner is not comfortable with the others
parents and their interference. We see that parents
keep waiting for a call from their children and
spend days in Old age homes waiting for someone
to come and greet them. But is this happening?
What is the reason that a person has to choose
between family, which has been there for him/her
and love, which is his/her possible future. What is
the right thing to do in such a case? If you ask me,
i would suggest you to let go of your love and
embrace your family, and here are 10 reasons why
this decision is the right one-
You can never replace family or get a new one if
you wanted to. They are limited edition beings and
hence if you let go of it once, you might find
yourself an orphan. Love on the other hand will
come and go like the seasons. If one relationship
fails, you can always move on and find one
someone who your family approves off. And you
will still end up having quite a wonderful life. But
you leave your family and go with love; you will
always feel that it is because of love that you lost
one of the most important things in life which is
the support, love and blessings of your loved ones
between love and family. Families are splitting up
as one partner is not comfortable with the others
parents and their interference. We see that parents
keep waiting for a call from their children and
spend days in Old age homes waiting for someone
to come and greet them. But is this happening?
What is the reason that a person has to choose
between family, which has been there for him/her
and love, which is his/her possible future. What is
the right thing to do in such a case? If you ask me,
i would suggest you to let go of your love and
embrace your family, and here are 10 reasons why
this decision is the right one-
10) SAFETY
Family is a safety net for everyone. Wherever you
go, knowing that your family is by your side gives
you the confidence to face anything and
everything. I can guarantee you that had you not
had the protection cover of your family; people
would have definitely treated you differently. If
something wrong happens to you, it’s your family
that you expect the most from. Whereas this is not
the same case with love as most of the times the
relationship crumbles under strenuous times. With
love, it’s easy to break off the relationship when
your partner doesn’t meet your expectations, but
with family you can always tell them what you
expect and if the expectations aren’t met by, then
you might sulk for some time, but you can never
really break off from them.
9) SUPPORT
When you first started walk, you would fall just
after 2 very small steps. When you started cycling,
you would fall down ever so often that you would
never have touched that cycle again if it wasn’t
your Dad. Mom or elder brother/sister assuring
you that they would hold you and not let you fall.
Family will always support you whether you are
high up in the sky or struggling through life. They
would always be there holding your hand and
telling you to try again just one more time. Love on
the other hand has been known to suffer a setback
through the rainy days.
8) A SENSE OF BELONGING
Everyone needs to know their place in this world.
For human beings, who are extremely emotional
creatures, knowing where they come from is an
assurance that they deserve to be a part of the
macrocosm. You cannot have a happy relationship
if you are not complete in yourself. And family is
that place which gives you this assurance. If you
are lost, you can travel the whole wide world but
you will only be found at the doorstep of the place
where you were brought up.
7) ITS NOT LOVE
The simplest point is that love is not pure if it’s
asking you to let go of the most important thing in
life. True love will work hard for its survival, not
take the easy route by running away. If a person
really loves you, he/she will try their best to prove
to your family that they are the best for you. They
would try and be a part of the family than destroy
it. If you boyfriend ever tells you to elope, do run,
but in the opposite direction from him.
6) FAMILY HELPS YOU GROW
Family lays the foundation of your whole
existence. You would be surprised to know that
research has proved that the way a person has
been brought up actually has a huge influence in
that persons relationships when they grow up. A
person at various stages in live goes through
different experiences that are the deciding factor in
whether he/she might have a successful or not so
successful life, the family support plays a very
important role in this. Love on the other hand
takes you into a bubble and when that bubble
burst, realisation strikes and it is not always a
happy ending.
5) THERE IS ONLY ONE FAMILY
you wanted to. They are limited edition beings and
hence if you let go of it once, you might find
yourself an orphan. Love on the other hand will
come and go like the seasons. If one relationship
fails, you can always move on and find one
someone who your family approves off. And you
will still end up having quite a wonderful life. But
you leave your family and go with love; you will
always feel that it is because of love that you lost
one of the most important things in life which is
the support, love and blessings of your loved ones
You can never replace family or get a new one if
you wanted to. They are limited edition beings and
hence if you let go of it once, you might find
yourself an orphan. Love on the other hand will
come and go like the seasons. If one relationship
fails, you can always move on and find one
someone who your family approves off. And you
will still end up having quite a wonderful life. But
you leave your family and go with love; you will
always feel that it is because of love that you lost
one of the most important things in life which is
the support, love and blessings of your loved ones
4) JUST THE WAY YOU ARE
Your parents will accept you however you are.
They do not have any conditions. If you are a quit
person, they will give you your space; if you are a
loud person, they will get use to your voice.
Parents, siblings know how you are and they
behave with you in that way. With family you can
just be. If they think that you are wrong, they will
advice you of it and that’s it. But love on the other
hand has rules and regulations. There are certain
expectations and when you do not follow the code,
there are chances of breaking up. In love, you have
to think before doing something. With family, they
already understand what you are trying to say
even when you aren’t able to utter a single word.
3) FAMILY IS ETERNAL
Family is forever. They are there when you are
born. They are there when you first start crawling.
They are there when you have your first laugh and
when you utter your first word. If you look back
on life you’ll see that most of your happy
memories will include members of your family.
Family was and will always be there, even when
love doesn’t work out. Love on the other hand is
not something that is guaranteed. Even after
marriage, there is constant work required from
both partners to sustain love. Love can hardly be
called eternal; otherwise divorce wouldn’t have
been so famous.
2) UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
Your parents do everything for you when you are a
child. They suffer to send you to the best school
and work like dogs to ensure that their kids have a
royal life. They take all your whining and make it
look adorable. They never ever want anything in
return. They will always love no matter what you
do. It’s the most selfless and unconditional form of
love if there ever existed any. Love on the other
hand is a matter of give and take. It always
expects something in return and when that need is
not fulfilled it’s gone.
1) IT’S ALL ABOUT LOVING YOUR
FAMILY
Family is where life begins and love never ends.
People while growing always forget that their
parents are also getting old and they need their
support now more than ever. It has always been
said that true heaven lies in the feet of your
parents. Seeing them have a content life at the
twilight of their life is a joy that no date or kiss
can ever give you. But honestly it should always be
difficult to choose between love and family. There
is a solution to it. You can have both by making
your love a part of your family.
