Showing posts with label Relationship issues. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationship issues. Show all posts
Sunday, 27 September 2015
love gets sweeter when life goes well, check out the birthday wish Mrs Oyedepo wishes husband, Bishop Oyedepo a happy birthday with a 2row bak pix
Faith Abiola Oyedepo took to her Facebook page to wish Bishop David Oyedepo whose 61st birthday is today, birthday wishes. She composed:
"Cheerful Birthday to my spouse, my affection, old buddy. David Oyedepo. Consistently with you is such a great amount of superior to anything the last.. May you subsequently remain persistently respected by our God" She likewise composed an individual letter to him. Click to read more...
"Cheerful Birthday to my spouse, my affection, old buddy. David Oyedepo. Consistently with you is such a great amount of superior to anything the last.. May you subsequently remain persistently respected by our God" She likewise composed an individual letter to him. Click to read more...
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the Poor and the Church who deserves my tithe???
Please I require exhortation. About two months ago, it suddenly entered
my mind to give my tithe to disabled people on the road.
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Monday, 24 August 2015
Bishop Oyedepo made it clear that Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing
I frequently advise women near me that marriage is similar to culture, in the event that you attempt to cover it a lot with innovation it is going to blast. Any woman who need to misdirect herself by believing that she and her spouse are equivalent will turn into a separated wife or first wife quicker than she could have ever envisioned.
Men wed more than one wife and it didn't prevent God from working with them. Women, it is in your place to be accommodating to your spouse as coordinated by the Bible, do generally and you will point the finger at yourself.
Men wed more than one wife and it didn't prevent God from working with them. Women, it is in your place to be accommodating to your spouse as coordinated by the Bible, do generally and you will point the finger at yourself.
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Saturday, 14 February 2015
Angry Woman Tears Ex-Boyfriend's Penis And Scrotum Off For Dumping Her
A woman has been jailed after she marched into her former lover's home and ripped his penis and scrotum to shreds with her bare hands.
Christina Lorena Reber was sentenced to two years in jail after she tore her ex's testicular sack from his body in a savage attack.
Reber, 46, was reportedly in a drunken rage when she decided to go to the unnamed man's home in Indiana.
According to a police report, the victim, who has not been named, had broken up with Reber just days before.
The couple had been seeing each other for eight months and it seems Reber was not ready for the relationship to end after she turned up drunk.
The victim told police he was working on his computer when he noticed his ex had walked in uninvited, before Reber began punching him in the head.
Reber then grabbed her former lover's scrotum and began "squeezing as hard as she could".
The two began fighting with the victim recalling he was "in incredible pain when Reber grabbed his scrotum and began digging in her fingers".
The jilted woman refused to relax her grip but the victim was finally able to pull himself free after they fell to the ground.
Christina Lorena Reber was sentenced to two years in jail after she tore her ex's testicular sack from his body in a savage attack.
Reber, 46, was reportedly in a drunken rage when she decided to go to the unnamed man's home in Indiana.
According to a police report, the victim, who has not been named, had broken up with Reber just days before.
The couple had been seeing each other for eight months and it seems Reber was not ready for the relationship to end after she turned up drunk.
The victim told police he was working on his computer when he noticed his ex had walked in uninvited, before Reber began punching him in the head.
Reber then grabbed her former lover's scrotum and began "squeezing as hard as she could".
The two began fighting with the victim recalling he was "in incredible pain when Reber grabbed his scrotum and began digging in her fingers".
The jilted woman refused to relax her grip but the victim was finally able to pull himself free after they fell to the ground.
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Monday, 12 January 2015
Illbliss, Olamide, Yvonne Ekwere, Wizkid, Iyanya & More Join their Voices to #PrayForNigeria
There has been a movement on social media today as Nigerians and Africans joined their voices to raise awareness about the killing of 2000 civilians in Baga, Borno State. Take a look at their words and messages below: Illbliss : SAD…. May God punish the people masterminding all this mayhem and disaster .. May their families be burnt beyond recognition. MAY they wallow in pain and may the wrath of our LORD deal with them decisively…. Reekado Banks: Pls say a prayer for my motherland Korede Bello : #GodBlessNigeria #GodBlessAfrica Olamide: I pray for peace and blessings, ya Allah have mercy on the innocent souls Toke Makinwa : Just when we are still reeling from the news of 2,000 people massacred in Baga, 2 female suicide bombers blow themselves up at the GSM market killing 4 people and injuring many others in Yobe state. I don’t recognise Nigeria anymore, this is not my country, these are not my people, when and how did we get here??? In Rivers state there is violence, APC building burnt down , on the other hand somewhere else a PDP bus is burnt too. The election process is not a do or die is it???? So why the violence? Of what difference does it make to terrorism Vandalism should never be accepted.people are hurt in the process. Who are these people??? Should the elections be postponed? Will February be safe? Why is there a March with world leaders and religious leaders in Paris and here NOTHING! Of what value is a human life in Nigeria? At this rate is there a future for our unborn kids in Nigeria? No light, Bad roads, Bad leaders, Killings everywhere, Corruption….. Father have mercy on us today Yvonne Ekwere : We are all of the HUMAN RACE… We all laugh, cry, eat, sh#t, breathe,… we have so much in common as human beings why kill your kind in the name of religion. what sense does that make??? what has come over the world? since when did it become ok to take the lives of innocent people? why should journalists be killed for expressing themselves? why are young school girls taken hostage just because they went to school? how is it normal to strap bombs to a 10 year old girl child to kill herself and others? what did she/they do to diserve this???? if the practice of “religion” requires one to murder others is it really RELIGIOUS? What about CONSCIENCE? and COMPASSION??? i’m shocked, tired, angry and confused. i am a CITIZEN of this WORLD, it is my right to practice whatever religion i choosei, live the way i want and not be worried about losing my life because of my choices… WTF are you to oppose that? You are NOT GOD and by the way, i hear from Him myself, you cant shove you radical sentiments down my throat. all i ask is that we JUST STAY IN PEACE. #RIPtoEveryLifeLost #LOVEisMyRELIGION#StayInPeace #peace #Nigeria #France #Unity#BringBackOurGirls #BringBackOurCountry#CharlieHebdo #BridgeTheGap #WeAreTheWorld#CitizenOfTheWorld #enoughisenough#worldpeace #Unity #WeAllShouldTryToGetAlong#ItsNotThatDifficult#WeDontHaveToLikeEachotherButLetsBeCivil#OnlyLightCanFightDarkness #MBOK #Vixen#VonneVixen #pray Peace Hyde: There is evidence EVERYDAY to prove that this world is unequal! 12 dead in Paris results in PRAYERS & PROTEST… Thousands dead in Nigeria results in SILENCE. It doesn’t matter where you live or your race or color… EVERY life MATTERS. Let’s show the next generation that when ONE person hurts…WE ALL HURT!… #PrayForNigeria #PrayForParis #PrayFortheWorld #Peace #humanity #love #respect#appreciate #life #photooftheday #oneworld #pray #God#Godhavemercyonus Udoka Oyeka: Is there any solution for this issue facing Northern Nigeria?????? #2000dead #BokoHaramMustGo #ThisIsSickening#BringBackOurGirls #NoWords In pictures
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good news: Muslims helping guarding churches in Kaduna
Following a controversial statement by the Kaduna chapter of CAN, Christian Association of Nigeria led by Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor; ENDS set out to verify the tympanic membrane-pleasing headline of Muslim and Christian unity and brotherly support in the nation’s oft beleaguered north. Global media had publicized that Muslim youth volunteered to guard Churches in Kaduna state the past Christmas. Upon investigation and through contacting Mr. Ibrahim Mohammad, a Kaduna-based reporter with an online news media, News Rescue, we were able to solidly confirm that brave and altruistic northern Muslim youth, about 200 in number did indeed guard Churches including the Christ Evangelical Church, Gbaghi Villa S/Tasha Kaduna of Pastor Yohanna Buru, inset. Some of the Muslims in the spirit of tolerance and unity even joined the Christian faithful to pray in the Church this Christmas. Pastor Buru had said, ““I really appreciate their love and care… the essence of that was to protect the Christian worshippers as part of effort to strengthen peaceful co- existence between Muslims and Christians in the state.” [ BibleInc ] Further saying , “We are happy to have them in our church to come and worship with us at the same time offer us protection. I am delighted with the development. We call you here not as guests, but as brothers and neighbours. “We urge Muslims and Christians to reconcile and forgive one another before the re-emergence of the awaited saviours.” Pastor Yohanna Buru is well established and globally renowned for his religious tolerance, charity actions and compassion for humanity. He ought to be emulated. Dr. Shu’aibu Musa, responding, extended a goodwill message of the Islamic Movement in Nigeria to the Christian faithful at Christmas, and called for more collaboration to rid the society of religious extremism. Nigerians must be urged to desist from unguarded utterances and actions that help to pursue the divisive agenda of the Boko Haram terrorists, hate, power cringing politicians and other enemies of Nigeria. There has been just too much blood-shed in Nigeria and all thoughts and benevolent actions that can foster peace, tolerance and understanding in the society should be fanatically sought for and supported. It has been a regular occurrence for Muslim and Christian youth as part of and along with the Civilian-JTF in Borno state to always guard Churches and Mosques from Boko Haram. We confirmed that this past Christmas teams of these youth started guarding Churches in Borno three days ahead of the Christmas and New Year’s to prevent terrorists form planting bombs ahead of the festivals. Precedence: It was well known that at the height of Boko Haram’s weekendly bombing of Churches in 2012 when Nigeria’s leadership handled the terrorists with ‘soft gloves’ as their ‘siblings,’ it was the Muslims Against Terror organization’s resounding communiqué for Muslims to defend Churches , along with strong messages of condemnation by regional Imams, the likes of Jos’ Yahaya Jingir (who just escaped a bomb assassination at his home this Friday), Sheikh Gumi (in his strong Ramadan messages published by SaharaReporters; he escaped an assassination), Sheikh Albani Zaria ( assassinated with his entire family for speaking against the terrorists), Sheikh Pakistani, outspoken critic Sheikh Dahiru Bauchi (escaped assassination with the Buhari car bombing double-attack ) and several others that caused Boko Haram in August of 2012 to stop bombing Churches every Sunday and turn their full wrath on Muslims and the society at large. Rather than divide Nigerians, the heavily sponsored actions of the power-loving politicians who thrive on disunity and strife as a tool to consolidate ethnic and religious based support is being shamed by God. Nigeria is seeing more inter-religious and ethnic peace, less riots and less enmity than ever before in the nation’s history. Luke 9:49-50 "...we saw one casting out devils in thy name; and we forbade him, because he followeth not with us. And Jesus said unto him, Forbid him not: for he that is not against us is for us." Quran 5:8: O ye who believe! stand out firmly for Allah, as witnesses to fair dealing, and let not the hatred of others to you make you swerve to wrong and depart from justice. Be just: that is next to piety: and fear Allah. For Allah is well-acquainted with all that ye do. This 2015, We Wish Peace and Harmony To Nigerians!
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Get out of that sex rut
We've all been there at some point – when the sex in our relationship becomes a bit boring, a bit routine or a bit uninteresting. You so often read articles on how to "spice up your sex life" but few articles actually explain why this might have happened or offer you longer lasting solutions. When it comes to reinventing your sexual routine, it’s not just about trying something new, but more about assessing what’s old. Stages of our sexual relationship 1. There’s excitement and passion 2. There’s romance and intimacy 3. Then comfort 4. Then companionship We all want to stay in the first two stages, but more often than not we find ourselves in the last two, especially in long term relationship Sexual ruts and routines We often get in a set routine with sex and foreplay – maybe kissing, touch, mouths, intercourse, cuddling. This routine can become boring and tried. A lot of my work is around helping couples reinvent their sexual routine So how can couples reinvent the sexual routine? Where do we start? 1. Talking about sex Couples who talk about sex have more sex, but a lot of people fear the conversation or don’t know how to have it. Be sensitive, honest but gentle, and instead of asking for less of something ask for more of it – have sexual empathy Sexually empathic couples process and communicate their fantasies in healthy, relaxed ways and consequently maintain lasting satisfaction in their relationships
Generally, women need more emotion, men need more physical – It is important to compromise. It is also important to talk about your needs, writing them down can be a good way to start Men’s needs: physical connection, pleasuring a partner, appreciation, and action Women’s needs: physical affection, build up, emotional connection, safety and permission Exchange your fantasies but remember to start slow. Difference between love and desire – love is about having, desire is about wanting 2. Changing the type of sex we have · Starts outside of the bedroom – definition of foreplay · Make an effort to show each other that you want each other – messages, surprises, and gestures. · Introduce erotic massage, but make a “no sex” rule after this happens so that you rather enjoy the intimacy and pleasure of each other’s bodies and not the pressure to perform and have sex.
You don’t have to try something totally new and outrageous – simply doing something you've always done differently or adding in something simple can make a big difference. · It doesn't always have to be about sex – being sensually generous to our partners make them feel wanted. · Ideas – a new lubricant or massage oil, candles, lingerie, sex in the shower or on the couch, trying a new position once a week, date night and erotic surprise.
Generally, women need more emotion, men need more physical – It is important to compromise. It is also important to talk about your needs, writing them down can be a good way to start Men’s needs: physical connection, pleasuring a partner, appreciation, and action Women’s needs: physical affection, build up, emotional connection, safety and permission Exchange your fantasies but remember to start slow. Difference between love and desire – love is about having, desire is about wanting 2. Changing the type of sex we have · Starts outside of the bedroom – definition of foreplay · Make an effort to show each other that you want each other – messages, surprises, and gestures. · Introduce erotic massage, but make a “no sex” rule after this happens so that you rather enjoy the intimacy and pleasure of each other’s bodies and not the pressure to perform and have sex.
You don’t have to try something totally new and outrageous – simply doing something you've always done differently or adding in something simple can make a big difference. · It doesn't always have to be about sex – being sensually generous to our partners make them feel wanted. · Ideas – a new lubricant or massage oil, candles, lingerie, sex in the shower or on the couch, trying a new position once a week, date night and erotic surprise.
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Has he suddenly gone off sex?
What could be wrong? Does he no longer find me attractive? Is he having sex with someone else? Does he no longer love me? Is there something wrong with his health? Is he impotent? Is it my personality? Do I make him feel emasculated? These are some of the questions that could go through your mind when it looks as if your partner has lost interest in sex. Suffering in silence Many women suffer with this problem in silence, whether they have been married for two years or twenty. It is often not the kind of thing they feel they can discuss easily with others, as they feel embarrassed and somehow responsible.
Talking about sex to your husband is often even more
difficult than talking about money. Somehow, this one
topic is studiously avoided by many married couples,
which is fine if things are going well. If however, sexual
relations come to a grinding halt, the lines of
communication are often not open. Talking about it is
about as difficult as undergoing root canal treatment
without anaesthetic. And in many cases people would opt
for the latter.
Why the sudden loss of interest?
What are the things that cause men to lose interest in sex
suddenly?
The reasons could be many. Many men in middle age
suffer from temporary impotence. The reasons could be
physical, psychological or both.
If the reasons for the impotence are physical, the onset of
the condition is gradual. Many habits or medical
conditions could contribute to this according to D. Jehu in
his book "Sexual dysfunction: a behavioural approach to
causation":
heart disease and disease of blood vessels
diabetes
multiple sclerosis
alcoholism
smoking
abdominal surgery
damage to the spinal cord or nerves
low levels of certain hormones
some prescription drugs
If the reasons for the impotence are psychological, the
onset of the condition is sudden and could be caused by a
wide variety of things:
job stress
relationship problems
financial concerns
depression or anxiety about poor sexual performance
psychiatric conditions
While performance enhancers sort out problems on the
short term, long-term solutions can only be found with the
intervention of professionals: either a doctor or urologist
in the case of physical problems or a psychologist or
sexologist in the case of emotional causes.
All said and done, most women will know that merely
talking about this problem is already difficult. Getting your
husband to go for help would be doubly so. The following
suggestions might help:
Don’t take on an accusatory tone – you need to get
your husband on your side
Choose your time carefully. The middle of a slinging
match is not the time to discuss this matter
Stress the fact that the problem affects both of you and
that the only solution is a joint one
Wait until the time is right – when you are both feeling
happy and relaxed
Don’t turn the whole discussion into a greater
emotional issue than it already is
Men put a high premium on their sexual performance.
Don’t denigrate your husband’s masculinity in any
way. It won’t get you anywhere
Use I-messages, such as “It makes me feel unloved
and unlovable when you won’t talk to me/have sex
with me/share a bedroom with me.”
Also accept the fact that most people’s sex lives are
unpredictable. Sometimes couples have sex often and
sometimes they don’t, for no particular reason. If,
however, a pattern of lesser or no sexual involvement
becomes the norm, it is time for you to intervene.
Talking about sex to your husband is often even more
difficult than talking about money. Somehow, this one
topic is studiously avoided by many married couples,
which is fine if things are going well. If however, sexual
relations come to a grinding halt, the lines of
communication are often not open. Talking about it is
about as difficult as undergoing root canal treatment
without anaesthetic. And in many cases people would opt
for the latter.
Why the sudden loss of interest?
What are the things that cause men to lose interest in sex
suddenly?
The reasons could be many. Many men in middle age
suffer from temporary impotence. The reasons could be
physical, psychological or both.
If the reasons for the impotence are physical, the onset of
the condition is gradual. Many habits or medical
conditions could contribute to this according to D. Jehu in
his book "Sexual dysfunction: a behavioural approach to
causation":
heart disease and disease of blood vessels
diabetes
multiple sclerosis
alcoholism
smoking
abdominal surgery
damage to the spinal cord or nerves
low levels of certain hormones
some prescription drugs
If the reasons for the impotence are psychological, the
onset of the condition is sudden and could be caused by a
wide variety of things:
job stress
relationship problems
financial concerns
depression or anxiety about poor sexual performance
psychiatric conditions
While performance enhancers sort out problems on the
short term, long-term solutions can only be found with the
intervention of professionals: either a doctor or urologist
in the case of physical problems or a psychologist or
sexologist in the case of emotional causes.
All said and done, most women will know that merely
talking about this problem is already difficult. Getting your
husband to go for help would be doubly so. The following
suggestions might help:
Don’t take on an accusatory tone – you need to get
your husband on your side
Choose your time carefully. The middle of a slinging
match is not the time to discuss this matter
Stress the fact that the problem affects both of you and
that the only solution is a joint one
Wait until the time is right – when you are both feeling
happy and relaxed
Don’t turn the whole discussion into a greater
emotional issue than it already is
Men put a high premium on their sexual performance.
Don’t denigrate your husband’s masculinity in any
way. It won’t get you anywhere
Use I-messages, such as “It makes me feel unloved
and unlovable when you won’t talk to me/have sex
with me/share a bedroom with me.”
Also accept the fact that most people’s sex lives are
unpredictable. Sometimes couples have sex often and
sometimes they don’t, for no particular reason. If,
however, a pattern of lesser or no sexual involvement
becomes the norm, it is time for you to intervene.
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Thursday, 8 January 2015
Henry Okah was paid to kill me – Jonathan
Henry Okah was paid to kill me – Jonathan

President Goodluck Jonathan on Thursday stated that the estranged leader of the Movement for the Emancipation of Niger Delta (MEND) Henry Okah was paid to assassinate him when he masterminded bomb attacks within the premises where Nigeria was celebrating its 50 years independence anniversary.
The President stated this at the Tafawa Balewa Square, Lagos in a PDP rally where he predicated his statement on a headline he read in a national daily which read that MEND dumps Jonathan.
According to him, the leader of MEND was one Okah who is currently imprisoned alongside his wife in South Africa. He said his trial was in South Africa and not in Nigeria where one can say it is manipulated by the President. ”Now the same Okah who is in jail abroad is now endorsing some people through his group,” Jonathan said.
Jonathan then asked; ”Is this the kind of Nigeria you want where a group like MEND will be endorsing party candidates?” To this, the crowd he was addressing yelled: ” No!”
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Saturday, 3 January 2015
Maheeda defends Nudity with topless colonial era photo
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