Flamboyant Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin writes to Single Ladies above age 30

Letter To The Ladies Volume 5. (Because you're 30 and
single doesn't mean you should throw in the Towel) -
written by Flamboyant Psychologist Adejoro Olumofin
As a result of the pressure from friends, family and close
associates, when some ladies reach age 30 and there are
no visible suitors in sight, they develop some Personality
Traits or Defense Mechanisms which may not be in their
best interest because they conform to societal views and
build a mindset that makes them see less of themselves like
they think society does. They then believe there's little or
no hope at all for them anymore and they are emotionally
tired of making themselves available to potentials..
For example they stop going out totally, stop bothering
about their makeup or fashion acumen, they say things like
" I'm too old to do this, I'm too old to attend this function /
event" or too old to go to the club, looking down on every
guy who may not be their preference because they have
achieved alot at their age and some guys may not meet
their standard or pay grade and all other excuses.
What they don't know is that by staying indoors and saying
i'm too old for this and that, or being overly picky, they lose
out on chances to network and socialise so how will they
meet people or even Mr. Right?  If you're interested in
settling down, no guy will break into your house to court
you.
From my first hand experience, i have some lady friends
who are 30 years old and above who still look smashing
and stunning and also give 21 year old Ladies a run for
their money, they also have loads of potentials and
suitors.These ladies have not allowed the " 30 year Old
syndrome" and societal pressure get to them, rather they
are living gracefully while trusting in God.
Ladies, If you don't see the good in yourself or your
potentials, no one will. Say no to the societal pressure and
live life rather than get broken.
You wont overcome this phase if you're emotionally
broken.
Lets encourage our sisters and friends dealing with this
"Pressure" because society and its norms are not too
friendly towards them.
In my opinion 30 is the new 25 and age is just a number and
state of mind. The way you carry yourself emotionally,
physically, spiritually and Psychologically determine how
a guy will treat you not your age.
#DoktorMofin #Psychology #Volume5
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Posted by Donatus Joshua at 09:21